This month I celebrated 43 years in full-time ministry. It's arduous to consider that I've been on this job for thus lengthy – possibly as a result of a lot of the years have been an amazing pleasure. Right here are some things I might do in a different way if I had been beginning over:
1. I might pray extra. Truthfully, my present curiosity in prayer has actually elevated after I used to be a pastor for a number of years. My pastoral years would have been completely different if I had spent extra time on my knees.
2. I might advise much less. I assumed I needed to have solutions for my church members, it doesn’t matter what their issues had been. Now, I might far more rapidly refer my members to counselors who’re extra educated than I’m.
3. I might delegate extra. I've burned out greater than as soon as merely for collaborating all. I couldn't perceive what was occurring with out the pastor, so I stayed concerned.
4. I might spend extra time away from my workplace. I attempted my finest to do evangelism, but it surely was simple to get caught up within the church world. I understand now that I can't attain misplaced individuals if I don't know any.
5. I might say “thanks” to my spouse extra usually. I served as a pastor for 10 years earlier than I received married, however Pam modified all the things for me. Each day I understand extra that he’s God's reward to me.
6. I might research extra for my sermons. It wasn't till a couple of years into my pastoral ministry that I started to delve actually deeply into sermon preparation. Seminary—particularly the years of my doctoral work—had been enormous for me on this area.
7. I might search for methods to be extra related to my group. In my final 12 months of full-time pastoral ministry, I additionally served in its place English instructor at our native major faculty. I might do it once more (along with different technique of becoming a member of) merely to know what’s going on in my group.
8. I might spend extra time with older adults within the church. I suppose it could be that I perceive them quite a bit higher now that I'm 63 years previous… however now greater than ever I understand how a lot knowledge there may be on this group.
9. I might take heed to extra members who’re wiser than me. These individuals had been often deacons or different workers. I look again and see all too usually after I missed it as a pacesetter as a result of I didn't pay attention.
10. I might take days off and all the time take a trip. I not often did both, particularly after I was single. That was not clever.
11. I might go on a mission journey at the very least annually. My coronary heart for the nations didn’t develop till years after I left full-time pastoral ministry. I deeply remorse this reality now.
12. I might not permit criticism to distract and discourage me. Generally the criticism ate at my soul as a result of I carried the burden slightly than giving it to God. I pray I don't now.
Veteran pastors, what would you do in a different way?
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Chuck Lawless at the moment serves as Professor of Evangelism and Missions and Dean of Graduate Research at Southeastern Seminary. Convention speaker and creator or co-author of greater than ten books, incl Religious Warfare: Biblical Fact for Victory, Realized warriors, Donning armor, Instructorand Religious warfare within the story of Scripture, Dr. Lawless has a robust curiosity in discipleship and mentoring. You possibly can join with Dr. by Lawless Twitter and Fb.